Somatic Activities to Support Feeling
Insecure
Inner Warrior Visualization
How To Do It:
Close your eyes and imagine a powerful, confident version of yourself—your “inner warrior.” Visualize this version of you standing tall, radiating strength and self-assurance. Imagine embodying this inner warrior in your current situation.
Why It Works:
Visualization techniques can help you tap into your inner strength and build a mental image of yourself as secure and confident, which can help transform feelings of insecurity.
Guided Practice:
Find a comfortable position to sit or lie down. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths, bringing your awareness to your body. Notice any sensations or feelings that come up, allowing yourself to be whatever arises.
Now, take a deep breath and imagine a powerful warrior within you, a symbol of your strength, courage, and resilience. Visualize this warrior in as much detail as you can — their posture, their expression, their armor or clothing. Feel the energy of this inner warrior, as if it is rising up from deep within you.
As you connect with this inner warrior, notice how it makes you feel — perhaps a sense of confidence, a surge of strength, or a deep-rooted courage. Feel this energy spreading through your body, grounding you in your own power and resilience. Imagine your warrior standing tall, facing any challenges or obstacles with unwavering strength and determination. Notice the sensations in your body — perhaps a firming of your posture, a sense of solidity in your feet, or a warmth in your chest. Stay with these sensations, allowing the visualization to deepen your connection to your inner warrior.
Spend some time with this image, letting it guide you into a state of empowerment and focus. Feel the presence of this warrior within you, a reminder of your own inner resources and capabilities. Notice if any beliefs, insights, or images arise as you connect with this powerful part of yourself. Let these experiences guide you, reinforcing your sense of strength and resilience.
When you feel ready, gently bring your awareness back to your breath, taking a few deep breaths to ground yourself in the present moment. Notice how your body feels now — perhaps more empowered, more focused, or simply more connected to your inner strength. Gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of inner warrior and resilience with you into your day, feeling more confident in your ability to face any challenges.
Self-Compassion Touch
How To Do It:
Place one hand gently over your heart and the other on your stomach. As you breathe deeply, imagine sending warmth and kindness to yourself. Repeat affirmations such as “I am enough” or “I am deserving of love and respect.”
Why It Works:
This exercise combines physical touch with self-compassion, helping to soothe feelings of insecurity and promote self-acceptance.
Guided Practice:
Find a quiet place to sit comfortably. Close your eyes take a few deep breaths. Feel each deep breath guide your body into deeper relaxation and your mind into stillness. Place your hands over your heart or on any part of your body that feels in need of compassion or care, such as your belly or your shoulders. Feel the warmth and comfort of your own touch, a reminder of your ability to offer kindness to yourself.
As you continue to breathe deeply, imagine sending love and compassion from your hands into your body. Visualize this touch as a healing balm, soothing any tension, pain, or discomfort you may feel. Notice the sensations of your touch — perhaps a gentle warmth, a sense of calm, or a softening of any tightness. Stay with these sensations, allowing the practice to guide you into a state of deeper self-compassion and care.
Let this simple act of self-touch offer you comfort and support. Feel the connection between your hands and your body, a bridge between your inner world and your physical self. Notice if any emotions, thoughts, or images arise — perhaps a sense of comfort, a feeling of peace, or even a memory of being cared for. Allow these experiences to deepen your practice, connecting you more fully to your own capacity for self-compassion.
When you feel ready, gently release your hands, taking a few more deep breaths to settle into stillness. Notice how your body feels now — perhaps more relaxed, more nurtured, or simply more at peace. Gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of self-compassion and kindness with you into your day, feeling more connected to your own heart and well-being.
Mirror Affirmations
How To Do It:
Stand in front of a mirror and make eye contact with yourself. Speak positive affirmations aloud, such as “I am strong,” “I trust myself,” or “I am capable.” Repeat these affirmations several times.
Why It Works:
Speaking affirmations while looking at yourself in the mirror can reinforce positive self-beliefs and counteract the negative self-talk that often accompanies insecurity.
Guided Practice:
Stand in front of a mirror and take a deep breath. Look softly into your own eyes, noticing any feelings or thoughts that arise.
As you look into your own eyes in the mirror, noticing your reflection begin to speak affirmations out loud to yourself, words of kindness, support, and encouragement—perhaps “i am enough,” “i am worthy,” or “i am loved.” notice how it feels to speak these words to yourself—perhaps a warmth in your chest, a lightness in your heart, or a sense of calm.
As you continue, imagine these affirmations filling your entire body with a warm, comforting light. Visualize this light wrapping around you, embracing you in its glow. You might see images or patterns of self-love and acceptance, or feel new insights about your own self-worth. Allow yourself to stay with these feelings, using the mirror as a tool for self-reflection and growth.
Let these affirmations shift the narrative of your self-talk. Perhaps you feel a sense of empowerment, a release of negativity, or a new understanding of your own self-image. Notice any insights or realizations that come up as you continue to speak your affirmations.
When you feel ready, take a few more deep breaths and gently put down the mirror. Notice how your body feels now—whether there is a sense of calm, self-compassion, or perhaps a renewed connection to your own inner strength. Allow yourself to stay with this feeling for a few moments, enjoying the sense of self-love. When you are ready, gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of affirmation and self-care with you into your day.
Root Chakra Grounding
How To Do It:
Sit or stand with your feet firmly planted on the ground. Visualize roots extending from your feet deep into the earth, anchoring you. Focus on the connection between your body and the earth, feeling supported and stable.
Why It Works:
Grounding exercises that focus on the root chakra help to establish a sense of security and stability, which can counter feelings of insecurity.
Guided Practice:
Sit comfortably with your feet flat on the ground. Notice any sensations of stability or restlessness without needing to change them.
Now deepen your focus with a few more breaths. Bring your awareness to the base of your spine, the location of your root chakra. Imagine a warm, red light glowing here, growing brighter and more intense with each breath. Feel the warmth and stability of this light, like a grounding force anchoring you to the earth.
As you continue to breathe, visualize roots growing from the base of your spine, extending deep into the earth. Imagine these roots reaching through layers of soil, rock, and water, grounding you firmly to the earth’s core. Notice any sensations that arise—perhaps a sense of stability, a feeling of heaviness, or a gentle pulsing in your lower body. Allow yourself to stay with these sensations, exploring any familiar feelings or beliefs about stability and security.
Allow this grounding practice to deepen your connection to the earth and your body. You might notice images or patterns associated with your sense of security, or perhaps a new insight about what grounding means for you. Allow these thoughts and sensations to flow naturally, without judgment. Stay with the visualization, feeling the deep connection between your body and the earth.
When you feel ready, gently bring your awareness back to your breath, imagining the roots slowly retracting back into your body. Notice how your body feels now—whether there is a sense of grounding, stability, or perhaps a renewed connection to your root chakra. Allow yourself to stay with this feeling for a few more moments, enjoying the sense of being grounded. When you are ready, gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of earth connection with you into your day.
Power Pose
How To Do It:
Stand tall with your feet shoulder-width apart, place your hands on your hips, and lift your chin slightly. Hold this position for two minutes while breathing deeply.
Why It Works:
Research suggests that adopting a power pose can help increase feelings of confidence and reduce insecurity by triggering hormonal changes that boost feelings of strength and assurance.
Guided Practice:
Stand tall with your feet hip-width apart. Close your eyes if it feels comfortable and notice the sensation of strength in your body. Feel your feet firmly grounded, without needing to strike a pose just yet.
Bring your hands to your hips, standing tall with your shoulders back and your chest lifted—assuming a power pose. Notice the sensations in your body—perhaps a sense of strength in your stance, a lift in your chest, or a grounding in your feet. As you hold this pose, imagine yourself standing in your own power, confident and strong. Visualize a bright light radiating from your center, expanding outward, filling the space around you. You might see images of yourself achieving your goals or feel familiar feelings of confidence and strength. Allow yourself to explore these sensations fully, staying present with the power pose.
Let this simple posture help you feel more confident and empowered in your daily life. Perhaps you feel a sense of determination, a deepened connection to your own strength, or a new awareness of your own potential. Notice any insights or realizations that arise as you continue with this power pose.
When you feel ready, gently release the pose and take a few more deep breaths, allowing your body to relax. Notice how your body feels now—whether there is a sense of empowerment, strength, or perhaps a renewed connection to your own inner power. Allow yourself to stay with this feeling for a few moments, enjoying the sensation of confidence. When you are ready, gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of empowerment and confidence with you into your day.