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Somatic Activities to Support Feeling

Victimized

Grounding with Earth Connection

How To Do It:

Go outside and find a patch of earth—this could be grass, soil, or sand. Stand or sit with your bare feet on the ground, feeling the texture beneath you. Imagine the earth drawing out any feelings of victimization, absorbing them into the ground. At the same time, visualize the earth sending up energy through your feet, filling you with strength and resilience.

Why It Works:

Connecting with the earth is a powerful grounding technique that can help you feel supported and stable. It draws on the natural strength of the earth to replenish your own sense of power and security.

Guided Practice:

Sit or stand in a comfortable position, feeling the ground beneath you. Close your eyes softly and take a few deep breaths, noticing the sensation of your feet on the earth. Feel the connection to the ground, the stability and support it provides.

Imagine that with each inhale, you are drawing energy up from the earth through your feet and into your body. Feel this energy moving through you—perhaps a warmth, a coolness, or a subtle vibration. Notice where this energy travels—up your legs, through your spine, or spreading out to your limbs.

As you continue to breathe, visualize roots growing from your feet deep into the ground, anchoring you firmly to the earth. Imagine these roots absorbing the earth’s strength and stability, bringing a sense of groundedness into your body. You might notice familiar feelings of security, or perhaps new images and insights about your connection to the earth. Allow yourself to explore these sensations fully, staying present with the visualization.

Allow yourself to experience the sensation of being fully connected to the earth. Perhaps you see yourself as a tree, strong and steady, or feel a sense of calm flowing through your body. Notice any beliefs or patterns that arise about stability, security, or your place in the world. Stay with these sensations, using the connection to the earth to deepen your sense of grounding.

When you feel ready, gently bring your awareness back to your breath and the feeling of your feet on the ground. Notice how your body feels now—whether there is a sense of calm, stability, or perhaps a renewed connection to the earth beneath you. Allow yourself to stay with this feeling for a few more moments, enjoying the sensation of being rooted and connected. When you are ready, gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of grounding and earth connection with you into your day.

Empowerment Chant

How To Do It:

Choose a word or phrase that makes you feel strong and empowered, such as 'I am powerful,' 'I am resilient,' or 'I stand strong.' Repeat this phrase out loud in a rhythmic chant, gradually increasing the volume and intensity. Allow the chant to resonate in your body, feeling the vibrations of your voice as a source of inner strength.

Why It Works:

Chanting can help you reclaim your voice and assert your power, breaking the silence and passivity that often accompany feelings of victimization. The repetitive, rhythmic nature of the chant reinforces your sense of empowerment.

Guided Practice:

Sit comfortably with your back upright and feet grounded. Close your eyes and begin to notice the rhythm of your breath. Feel the vibration in your chest as you breathe deeply, tuning into the energy within your body.

Begin to think of a word or short phrase that represents empowerment for you—something that makes you feel strong, confident, or capable. It could be a word like “strength,” “resilience,” or “i am enough.”

start chanting this word or phrase softly under your breath, repeating it with each exhale. Feel the vibrations of your voice as you chant, noticing how the sound resonates in your chest, throat, and head. Allow the chant to become a rhythm, a steady beat that aligns with your breath. Perhaps you feel a sense of power building within you, or maybe a gentle calming of the mind.

As you continue chanting, imagine this word or phrase filling your entire being, like a warm, golden light spreading through your body. Notice any images, memories, or beliefs that surface as you chant—perhaps familiar patterns of doubt or fear, or new insights about your own strength. Allow yourself to explore these fully, staying present with the sound and vibration of your chant.

When you feel ready, slowly let the chant fade into silence, bringing your awareness back to your breath. Notice how your body feels now—whether there is a sense of calm, empowerment, or perhaps a deeper connection to your own strength. Allow yourself to stay with this feeling for a few more moments, enjoying the resonance of your own voice. When you are ready, gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of empowerment with you into your day.

Voice Liberation Exercise

How To Do It:

Find a private space and allow yourself to vocalize any pent-up emotions or thoughts. You can shout, sing, or speak aloud anything that comes to mind, focusing on releasing the words with as much emotion as needed. Feel free to repeat empowering phrases such as 'I am free' or 'I reclaim my power.'

Why It Works:

Using your voice to express and release emotions can be incredibly freeing. This exercise helps to reclaim your voice and assert your personal power, which can be diminished when feeling victimized.

Guided Practice:

Take a comfortable position and close your eyes if that feels good. Take a few deep breaths, notice any sensations present in your body.

Now, take a moment to tune into your voice, feeling the vibration in your throat, the movement of your breath, and the power of your vocal cords. Notice how it feels to be connected to your own voice, the unique sound that is yours.

Start by making a gentle humming sound, allowing the vibration to move through your chest and throat. Feel the resonance of your voice within your body, noticing any sensations of warmth, vibration, or even a subtle energy flow. Gradually increase the volume and pitch of your voice, letting it grow stronger and more powerful with each breath. Explore different sounds and tones, feeling the freedom of expression that comes with using your voice fully.

As you continue, notice what feelings or thoughts arise as you liberate your voice — perhaps a sense of empowerment, a release of tension, or even a bit of self-consciousness. Allow these experiences to be present, without needing to change them. Feel the power of your voice as a tool for expression and release, a way to connect with your inner truth and strength. Stay with these sensations, feeling the vibrations moving through your body, grounding you in your own power.

When you feel ready, bring your voice back to a gentle hum, taking a few deep breaths to settle into stillness. Notice how your body feels now — perhaps more open, more alive, or simply more connected to your own voice. Gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of vocal liberation and self-expression with you into your day, feeling more confident in your ability to speak your truth.

Breath of Fire (Kapalabhati)

How To Do It:

Sit comfortably with your spine straight. Take a deep inhale through your nose, then begin a series of quick, forceful exhales through your nose, pulling your navel in toward your spine with each exhale. Allow the inhales to happen naturally. Continue this for 1-2 minutes.

Why It Works:

Breath of Fire is an energizing breathing technique that can help you release stagnant energy and feelings of victimization, replacing them with vitality and empowerment. It activates your core and can help you feel more grounded and strong.

Guided Practice:

Before beginning, find a comfortable place to sit or lie down. Gently close your eyes or maintain a soft gaze. Start by taking a few deep breaths, allowing yourself to settle into the present moment. As you breathe in, feel your abdomen expand, and as you breathe out, notice your belly gently drawing in. Perhaps you sense a feeling of grounding with each breath, a connection between your body and the earth beneath you.

We are going to practice breath of fire, a powerful breathing technique that invigorates and energizes the body. When you're ready, take a deep inhale through your nose, filling your lungs fully. On the exhale, forcefully push the air out through your nose, drawing your belly in sharply with each exhalation. You might notice a quick, rhythmic contraction of your abdominal muscles, or a sensation of warmth building in your belly. Allow the inhale to come naturally, and focus on the forceful exhale.

As you continue this practice, find a steady, rhythmic pace that feels comfortable yet stimulating. You may begin to feel a warming sensation spreading through your body, or a tingling in your face and extremities. Imagine each breath as a burst of energy, clearing out any stagnation or blockages in your body. Perhaps you visualize a bright flame in your belly, growing stronger and brighter with each exhale. Keep your awareness on the breath and the sensations it creates within you.

Allow yourself to be fully immersed in this practice, feeling the rhythm of your breath and the movement of your body. Notice if any emotions or thoughts arise, and gently guide your focus back to the breath, to the powerful rhythm you've created. This breath is not just a physical exercise; it's an opportunity to release any tension or stagnant energy, to invigorate and awaken every cell in your body.

After a few more cycles, take a deep inhale and hold the breath for a moment, feeling the energy you've cultivated. You might sense a vibration or a gentle buzzing throughout your body, or a heightened sense of clarity and focus. When you're ready, exhale slowly and completely, allowing your body to relax. Return to a natural breathing rhythm, noticing the sensations in your body, the warmth, the energy, the sense of revitalization.

As we bring this practice to a close, take a few deep, calming breaths. Feel the energy you have created flowing freely throughout your body, bringing a sense of balance and renewal. Perhaps you feel a sense of lightness or clarity, or maybe a different sensation altogether. When you're ready, slowly open your eyes or lift your gaze, carrying with you the sense of vitality and energy that this practice has generated. Know that you can return to this powerful breathwork whenever you need to awaken and energize your body and mind.

Empowerment Walk

How To Do It:

Go for a walk in a place where you feel safe. As you walk, consciously adopt a posture of confidence—stand tall, shoulders back, and head held high. With each step, imagine yourself walking away from the feelings of victimization and toward empowerment and self-assurance. You might also repeat an empowering mantra in your mind as you walk.

Why It Works:

Physical movement combined with a confident posture can help shift your mental and emotional state. Walking with intention can reinforce feelings of empowerment and help you leave behind the negative emotions associated with victimization.

Guided Practice:

Stand comfortably with your feet hip-width apart, feeling the ground beneath you taking a few deep breaths, allowing your body to relax and your mind to settle into the present moment. Start walking slowly and mindfully, paying attention to each step you take. Feel the sensation of your feet connecting with the ground, noticing the texture, the firmness, and the subtle shifts in balance.

As you walk, imagine each step as a declaration of your strength and empowerment. With each step, feel yourself becoming more grounded, more confident, and more powerful. Notice how your posture changes — perhaps your shoulders pull back, your chest lifts, or your head feels higher. Stay with these sensations, feeling the empowerment building with each step. Notice any thoughts or emotions that arise as you walk — perhaps a sense of pride, a feeling of determination, or even a release of fear. Allow these experiences to unfold naturally, without needing to control them.

Visualize yourself walking towards a goal or intention, something that symbolizes your personal power. Feel the energy of each step bringing you closer to this goal, strengthening your resolve and focus. Notice how your body responds to this visualization — perhaps a quickening of your pace, a sense of lightness in your steps, or a deepening of your breath. Let this walk become a moving meditation, connecting you with your inner strength and purpose.

When you feel ready, slowly come to a stop, taking a few deep breaths to settle into stillness. Notice how your body feels now — perhaps more energized, more confident, or simply more present. Gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of empowerment and purpose with you into your day, feeling more aligned with your own strength and intentions.

Power Symbol Creation

How To Do It:

Think of a symbol that represents strength, resilience, or protection to you—this could be anything from a shield to a specific animal or shape. Close your eyes and visualize this symbol in your mind’s eye. Imagine it growing larger and more powerful, surrounding you with its energy. You can also draw or sculpt this symbol as a tangible reminder of your inner strength.

Why It Works:

Creating and focusing on a power symbol can help you channel your inner strength and resilience, transforming feelings of powerlessness into empowerment. It serves as a mental anchor that you can return to whenever you feel vulnerable.

Guided Practice:

Sit comfortably and take a few deep breaths, feeling the air move in and out of your lungs. Notice the sensations in your body.

Close your eyes and imagine a symbol that represents your personal power and strength. This symbol could be anything — a shape, a color, an object, or a pattern. Visualize this symbol clearly in your mind, noticing its details, its energy, and what it represents for you.

Feel the presence of this symbol within you, as if it is a part of your very being. Notice how it makes you feel — perhaps a sense of confidence, a surge of energy, or a feeling of empowerment. Stay with these sensations, letting the symbol strengthen your connection to your own inner power. You might notice a sense of warmth in your chest, a tingling in your hands, or even a gentle vibration throughout your body. Allow these sensations to grow, reinforcing your sense of strength and capability.

Spend some time with this symbol, exploring what it means to you and how it connects you to your inner power. You may find yourself feeling more focused, more courageous, or more in touch with your own strength. Let the visualization deepen your understanding of this power symbol, allowing any feelings or insights to surface naturally. Feel the symbol radiating its energy throughout your body, grounding you in your own strength and resilience.

When you feel ready, gently bring your awareness back to your breath, taking a few deep breaths to ground yourself in the present moment. Notice how your body feels now — perhaps more empowered, more connected, or simply more aware of your inner strength. Gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of power and confidence with you into your day, feeling more attuned to your own inner resources and capabilities.

Boundary Visualization

How To Do It:

Sit comfortably and close your eyes. Imagine a strong, protective barrier surrounding you—this could be a wall of light, a force field, or anything that feels solid and secure. Visualize this boundary keeping out any negative energy or harmful influence while allowing in only positive, supportive energy. Spend a few minutes reinforcing this boundary in your mind.

Why It Works:

Visualization of strong boundaries can help you regain a sense of control and safety, which is often lost when feeling victimized. This exercise empowers you to mentally and emotionally protect yourself.

Guided Practice:

Sit or stand in a position that feels steady and secure. Close your eyes and begin to notice the feeling of your body in space—the weight of your feet on the ground, the sensation of your breath moving in and out. Imagine a sense of space around you, sensing where your body ends and the space begins.

Imagine a soft, glowing light surrounding your body, forming a protective bubble or shield. This light represents your personal boundaries, a safe space where only positive energy can enter. Notice the color and quality of this light—perhaps it is a warm gold, a soothing blue, or a bright white.

As you continue to visualize this boundary, imagine it gently expanding and contracting with each breath. Feel the energy of this protective light strengthening your sense of self and creating a clear distinction between you and the external world. You might notice images of familiar places or memories where you felt safe and secure, or perhaps new insights about your own boundaries and how they are maintained. Allow yourself to explore these sensations fully, staying present with the visualization.

Visualize this boundary as flexible yet strong, able to expand to include loved ones or contract to protect you from negative influences. Notice how it feels to have control over this boundary—perhaps a sense of empowerment, clarity, or calm. Allow any beliefs or patterns about boundaries to arise, letting them inform your awareness. Stay with these sensations, using the visualization to deepen your sense of personal space and protection.

When you feel ready, gently bring your awareness back to your breath and the feeling of the protective light around you. Notice how your body feels now—whether there is a sense of calm, strength, or perhaps a deeper understanding of your own boundaries. Allow yourself to stay with this feeling for a few more moments, enjoying the sensation of being safely protected. When you are ready, gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of boundary and personal space with you into your day.

Warrior Stance

How To Do It:

Stand with your feet shoulder-width apart and bend your knees slightly. Raise your arms in front of you in a defensive stance, as if preparing to block an attack. Hold this position for a few deep breaths, feeling the strength in your legs and the power in your arms. Then, slowly lower your arms and straighten your legs, imagining yourself standing tall and strong.

Why It Works:

The Warrior Stance is a physical embodiment of strength and readiness, helping to shift your mindset from victimhood to empowerment. It can boost feelings of confidence and personal power.

Guided Practice:

Stand with your feet firmly planted on the ground, finding a stance that feels strong and stable. Close your eyes gently and begin to notice the feeling of your muscles engaged, the strength in your legs and core. Feel the sensation of standing tall and rooted, sensing the power and stability within your body.

Bend your front knee and extend your arms out to the sides, palms facing down, assuming a warrior stance. Feel the strength in your legs, the stretch in your arms, and the grounding through your feet. Notice the sensations—perhaps a firmness in your stance, a stretching in your body, or a grounding in your legs.

As you hold this pose, imagine yourself as a warrior, strong and focused. Visualize a shield in one hand and a sword in the other, ready to face any challenge. You might see images of strength and courage or feel familiar feelings of resilience and determination. Allow yourself to explore these sensations fully, staying present with the warrior stance.

Let this posture help you embody a sense of courage and readiness. Perhaps you feel a sense of empowerment, a connection to your inner strength, or a new awareness of your own ability to face challenges. Notice any insights or realizations that arise as you continue with this stance.

When you feel ready, gently release the pose and switch sides, repeating the stance with the opposite leg forward. Notice how your body feels now—whether there is a sense of balance, strength, or perhaps a renewed connection to your own warrior spirit. Allow yourself to stay with this feeling for a few moments, enjoying the sensation of strength and courage. When you are ready, gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of readiness and resilience with you into your day.

Transforming Energy through Art

How To Do It:

Gather art supplies and create a visual representation of the energy you feel when victimized. This could be through painting, drawing, or sculpting. Once you’ve expressed the negative energy, begin transforming the piece into something that represents strength, resilience, or freedom. You might add new colors, shapes, or layers that symbolize your shift from victim to survivor.

Why It Works:

This exercise allows you to externalize and then transform the emotions associated with being victimized. Art provides a safe space for emotional expression and healing, turning negative experiences into empowering symbols.

Guided Practice:

Sit comfortably with art supplies in front of you, allowing your body to feel relaxed and supported. Hold one of your materials and close your eyes and take a few slow breaths, feeling the sensation of the materials in your hands. Notice the texture and weight, the potential for creation.

Now, think of a strong emotion you are currently experiencing—whether it's frustration, sadness, excitement, or something else allow this emotion to fill your awareness, noticing how it feels in your body—perhaps a tightness in your chest, a warmth in your belly, or a tingling in your hands.

Begin to translate this emotion into art. Choose colors, shapes, or forms that resonate with how you're feeling. Allow your hand to move freely, expressing the emotion on the page without judgment or hesitation. Notice the physical sensation of the art-making process—the pressure of the brush or pencil, the texture of the paper, or the flow of the paint. Allow yourself to stay fully present with the process, noticing any thoughts, memories, or images that arise.

As you continue creating, imagine this art as a way to transform the energy of the emotion. Perhaps the color red turns from anger into passion, or a jagged line smooths into a flowing curve, representing peace. Notice how this transformation feels—perhaps a release, a softening, or a new perspective on the emotion. Allow yourself to explore these sensations fully, noticing any insights or realizations that come up.

When you feel ready, step back and look at what you've created. Notice how your body feels now—whether there is a sense of calm, empowerment, or perhaps a new understanding of your emotional landscape. Allow yourself to stay with this experience for a few more moments, enjoying the sense of transformation. When you are ready, gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of creative expression and emotional clarity with you into your day.

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