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Balancing Act Exercise

Materials Needed:

To Support Feeling:

Judgmental

How to Do It

Stand on one leg and try to balance yourself. As you do this, imagine that your dismissive attitude is like the imbalance you feel. Focus on finding your center, both physically and mentally, as you work to stabilize yourself. As you find balance, visualize yourself balancing your judgments with curiosity and understanding. Switch legs and repeat the exercise, reinforcing the concept of balance in your thoughts and actions.

Why It Works

Balancing requires focus and awareness, which can help bring attention to the need for balance in your thoughts and attitudes. This physical act serves as a metaphor for balancing dismissiveness with openness.

Guided Practice

Stand comfortably and take a few deep breaths, feeling the air move in and out of your lungs. Notice the sensations in your body, perhaps feeling a sense of stillness or restlessness. Let your breath guide you as you prepare to engage with this exercise.

Stand with your feet hip-width apart, grounding yourself firmly into the floor. Take a few deep breaths, feeling your spine lengthen and your body settle into a stable position. As you shift your weight onto one foot, lifting the other foot slightly off the ground, notice the sensation of balance — the subtle adjustments your body makes to maintain stability. Imagine that your judgmental attitude toward a certain idea or perspective is like the imbalance you feel in this position, a lack of steadiness that challenges your sense of grounding. Feel the muscles in your standing leg engage, the slight sway as your body finds equilibrium, just as you would when trying to understand something you’ve been resistant to. Focus on the feeling of balance in your body. Notice the micro-movements in your ankle, the strength in your core, and the alignment of your spine. As your body wavers, notice how this mirrors your mind’s struggle to maintain balance when facing skepticism or dismissal. Can you allow yourself to be curious about this imbalance, both physical and mental, and find a way to steady yourself through openness and awareness? Stay with these sensations, allowing yourself to experience the challenge and satisfaction of maintaining balance. Feel any emotions that arise — perhaps a sense of concentration, a feeling of determination, or even a hint of frustration. Notice if these emotions reflect the discomfort or resistance you feel toward that rejected perspective, and see if you can bring a sense of curiosity and compassion to both. As you continue to balance, visualize yourself as a tree. Imagine your foot as the root, grounding deeply into the earth, and your body as the trunk, strong and stable. Just as a tree sways with the wind without losing its grounding, imagine allowing yourself to sway with the discomfort of exploring something new or previously dismissed, while still feeling rooted in your own stability. Feel the sway and bend as if you were moving with the wind, finding your own rhythm. Notice any images, memories, or beliefs that come up — perhaps a memory of learning balance, a belief about stability, or a feeling of being grounded. Let these thoughts and feelings inform your practice, just as being open to new ideas can deepen your sense of balance and presence in your life. When you feel ready, gently place your lifted foot back on the ground, taking a few deep breaths, noticing the shift in your body. As your body settles back into stability, let this sense of balance and openness expand into your thinking, releasing judgment or rejection. Notice how your body feels now — perhaps more stable, more grounded, or simply more aware. Gently open your eyes, carrying this sense of balance and openness with you into your day, feeling steady, centered, and more willing to embrace perspectives that challenge your equilibrium.

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